Wilhelm Family Story

Like last month’s post, we want to share the story of our second Featured Family. This story is from the Wilhelm family about how epilepsy has affected their lives. 

It was five days before Kurstin’s first Christmas, which also happened to be the day that she turned eight months old; she had just fallen asleep next to her mother on the couch. Kurstin was snuggled into a onesie, sleeping with her flower baby blanket and her bear that she called baby. Like any other typical night this was the setting in our house as we were getting ready to go to bed. Her older brother Ian was already asleep and the house was quiet. This was also the first time that epilepsy entered our lives.

Kurstin was the happiest baby I had ever seen in my life. She would rarely ever cry, and her chubby, rosy-red checks always seemed to have a smile on them. She made parenting seem easy. She had the ability as a baby to project that same joy she had onto the rest of her family members. At eight weeks old she had her first surgery and all I can remember is a day and a half of her being irritable before she went back to her old happy ways. When we were asked by the Epilepsy Association to write this piece, it was emotionally tough to do so and to go back and remember the joy and happiness that used to fill Kurstin’s life.

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“John, what is she doing?” I still remember my wife Sarah asking me in a panicky voice like it was last night. Kurstin’s whole body began to shake and convulse. I picked her up and started to call her name but she was unresponsive to me. She started to foam a little from the mouth, and we called 911. I remember my wife asking me if it was a seizure, in which I had no clue because I had never experienced it firsthand. Needless to say it wasn’t our finest moment; we were a scared mess. When the paramedics arrived we described to them what happened. They asked us how long it lasted, and we told them that it was at least ten minutes long, not knowing back then to time her seizures. What was probably two minutes we thought were ten that felt like an hour. Like a UFO, epilepsy had suddenly descended into our lives, and we had no clue what it was.

Today Kurstin is eight years old and loves to nurture and play with her baby dolls pretending to be their mother. Her doctors have been able to do an amazing job of finding the right mixture of medicine to help control her epilepsy. Occasionally she will still have a break-through seizure, so our guards can never be down, but the seizures are considerably better than earlier in her life when she was experiencing multiple ones on a daily basis. Kurstin’s epilepsy has delayed her learning and has caused her a lot of confusion, which oftentimes can come out as anger. This has not stopped her from having a really big heart for others. At the end of every school day, she will help the other students with putting on their coats, tying shoes, and getting book bags ready to go before she even gets her own set to go. She is especially drawn to helping other special-needs children. Kurstin has two very supportive siblings. Her younger sister Olivia, who is seven years old, is her main playmate and will lie next to Kurstin and watch movies in Kurstin’s bed while she sleeps after she has had a seizure. Olivia does not like to leave Kurstin’s side after an episode to ensure that she will be okay. Kurstin also has an older brother Ian, now fourteen years old, whom she also adores. Watching her go through this has been hard on him, and the older he gets, the more of an active role he takes upon himself to watch out over her. Kurstin has been an inspiration to our family. She has never let epilepsy slow her down. It has never made her lose her determination; she just pushes forward when she has had every excuse as to why it would be ok if she didn’t.

We are very excited for this opportunity that the Epilepsy Association has given us to be able to use our story as a vehicle to raise awareness, funds, and anything else we can do for the epilepsy community because we have come to find that it is truly a community. In addition, Kurstin has her own Facebook page run by her mother that we have accomplished a few things through: letting people know how she is doing for the people who have followed her story; raising awareness for epilepsy through a social media platform; and reaching out and connecting with other people who have epilepsy and helping out however we can. Kurstin’s mother, Sarah, has used her job as a platform to raise awareness to the public about epilepsy and has done her part in fundraising as well. Our family has donated our time and worked with organizations such as Unite This City and A Special Wish in similar efforts. Our family is excited and would like to thank the Epilepsy Association for giving us another opportunity to once again be able to fundraise and spread awareness in the 13th Annual Winter Walk on Saturday, January 27th at South Park Mall in Strongsville.

 

To donate to Team Kurstin, click here.

Watson Family Story

Every year at our Winter Walk, we choose one or two families to headline the event. These families, called Featured Families, are nominated by themselves or by another person because of their commitment and courage while coping with epilepsy. This year we have chosen two families to headline our 13th Annual Winter Walk. Here is a story from one of the Featured Families, the Watson family, about how epilepsy has affected their lives. 

 

We are the Watson Family: Don, Monica, Hannah, Ben and Molly. Our son, Ben, is a typical 13- year-old eighth grader. He is very involved in Boy Scouts and 4-H and loves cheering for the Buckeyes, the Cavs and the Cleveland Indians. The summer of 2013, when Ben was 9 years old, he was in his first year of 4-H and showing a sheep as one of his projects. Ben was struggling to maintain control of his animal and we were getting frustrated with him for often appearing as though he was not paying any attention. He would stop talking mid-sentence, his eyes would flutter and it was apparent that he was completely “zoned out”. Having worked in health care, I recognized he was either having a seizure or had developed some sort of tick. We headed to Akron Children’s Neurodevelopmental Science Center for an EEG and Ben was diagnosed with absence seizures. Essentially Ben’s  4-H sheep was the first to figure out his seizures, as Ben would have control, then his grip would relax during a seizure and the lamb would simply walk away from him, without Ben being able to figure out what had happened.

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We initially made the mistake of handling the diagnosis by simply thinking here is our diagnosis and here is the treatment medication, so no big deal, it will all go back to normal. We quickly discovered that epilepsy was not going to be such an easy journey. Ben had numerous negative side effects from his initial medication and was struggling with anxiety and depression at only nine years old. We knew we needed more help to understand, cope and manage his seizures. Thankfully we were introduced to another local family, the Dillon Family, who have supported us and offered some guidance including introducing us to the Epilepsy Association.

Today Ben has been seizure free for about 2 years and as he enters his teenage years, we will see where this journey leads us to next. Currently, and every year since our diagnosis, we work with the Dillons to organize and host a Dine to Donate Event in Wooster for Purple Day and we take part in this Winter Walk to help spread awareness. We proudly talk about our journey and continue to learn about epilepsy, while promoting more awareness. We have been amazed by how many people we talk to know someone with seizures, have had them in the past, or who are continually searching for support and understanding in dealing with their diagnosis. Our 20+ year old cousin, Danielle, who lives near Buffalo, NY, also has epilepsy and it is endearing how she has rallied around Ben, supporting him at every turn and participating in Epilepsy Awareness events in honor of herself and Ben. We are so excited to be selected as one of the Featured Families for the Winter Walk this year, so that we can continue to get people talking to raise awareness. Ben doesn’t look like a “sick” teenager, but epilepsy has certainly not been an easy journey and we know others will benefit from what we have learned if we are willing to talk about all of it. The Epilepsy Association has certainly helped us with this, as they have continued to spread awareness and provide education about the condition and given us the resources necessary to combat the many challenges associated with epilepsy.

 

To donate to Team Watson, click here.

26th Annual Gala for Epilepsy Awareness Month

Editors’ note: In recognition of our 26th Annual Gala and Epilepsy Awareness Month, Epilepsy Association Board President daughter, Allison Karlovec, shares an insider’s view of the elegant and wonderful evening of November 3.

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On Friday, November 3rd, over two hundred and thirty guests, clothed in elegant cocktail dresses and suits, gathered into the Cleveland Marriott Downtown at Key Center for the 26th Annual Epilepsy Association Gala. The Gala, held every November in recognition of epilepsy awareness month, raises public awareness about epilepsy and funds for the Epilepsy Association’s local programs. My father, Jeff Karlovec, is President of the Board, and my little sister, Julia, has had epilepsy since she was two years old, so this event is something we look forward to every year; my sisters and I start searching for dresses months in advance.

The evening began with a cocktail hour outside of the ballroom, with attendees examining the extensive silent auction while listening to live classical music and enjoying a selection of hors d’oeuvres. The silent auction contained over eighty items, including an array of fur coats, children’s gifts, excursion and spa packages, household goods like a Keurig, custom jewelry, signed Indians baseballs (which I always beg my dad to bid on) and CAVS and Indians tickets. The silent auction was open throughout the evening, so even during dinner, we kept checking on the baseballs to see if we had been outbid yet. In addition, there was a wine pull raffle, where you could purchase a wine cork with the chance to win a bottle of wine valued between $20 and $200. There was also a photo booth station set up with an Epilepsy Association banner as the backdrop, and a fun bucket of hats and masks to pose with.

After the cocktail hour, we were summoned into the ballroom for a gourmet dinner, which was proceeded by the agency’s Legacy Award presentation. The Legacy Award is given to a medical professional who has made outstanding contributions in the field of epilepsy, and this year’s honoree was Jorge Gonzalez-Martinez, MD, PhD, a distinguished neurosurgeon in the Epilepsy Center at the Cleveland Clinic. Dr. Gonzalez-Martinez, who completed medical school at the University of Sao Paulo, Brazil, explained in his acceptance speech how he moved to Cleveland after his neurological training to study epilepsy at the Cleveland Clinic, because there was no better place to be than Cleveland for epilepsy. He stated that Cleveland is still the place to be for epilepsy. After he said that, I thought of how fortunate my little sister Julia is, and others affected by epilepsy in the Northeast Ohio region are, to have access to one of the best hospitals in the nation, one that is continuously making tremendous strides for the evaluation, medical, and surgical treatment of epilepsy in children and adults.

The Epilepsy Association also gave special recognition to fourteen-year-old Macey Dillon, who received this year’s Youth Humanitarian Award. The award honors an outstanding young advocate, and Macey proved that she was just that, having demonstrated extraordinary commitment and effort in raising awareness of epilepsy and supporting the Epilepsy Association. Macey’s story is so inspiring: she was diagnosed with epilepsy in kindergarten, and has struggled with the cognitive, memory, and emotional issues associated with the condition ever since. Yet, she has persisted through all of these trials with confidence, hard work, and a positive attitude, and today is on the honor roll, a member of her school’s tennis team, and active in her church. Macey has been a strong advocate of the Epilepsy Association since 2012, and has participated in and fundraised for two of the agency’s special events: Purple Day and the Winter Walk. Her contributions to the Epilepsy Association have been outstanding; since 2012, Macey has raised over $7,000 for the Winter Walk through her online fundraising efforts, helped organize restaurant nights, and coordinated dress down days at her school for Purple Day, where she raised an additional $1,100 in donations. Macey’s strong desire to help others who suffer from epilepsy and her commitment to raising awareness and funds, while simultaneously tackling her own trials, is certainly admirable and inspiring.

After the awards were presented, auctioneer Bob Hale kicked off the Fund-A-Need auction to support the Kids and Family program. Donations ranged from $5,000 to $100, and it was a thrilling and exciting part of the evening, with attendees’ paddles bobbing up into the air while Bob rattled off the numbers at rapid-fire speed. Bob also helped with the Live Auction, where a brain surgery observation, week-long stay at a beach condo in Amelia Island, FL, and a Disney vacation were auctioned off. The Amelia Island package was so popular that it was sold three times! After the auctions were completed, everyone hurried for dessert, dancing to the live band, Driven, and a final scan of the silent auction items.

The evening was definitely a hit, and I felt a heightened sense of community as we all came together to raise awareness for epilepsy and support this meaningful cause. The Gala raised over $158,000, and was the most successful Gala ever! Perhaps we can top this year’s contributions at next year’s gala on Friday, November 9th, 2018.

 

For pictures from the evening. please click here.

Hayden’s Story

In wrapping up our 5th Annual eRACE 5K & 1 Mile Walk, we wanted to highlight an inspiring story to show the impact of the funds raised during our eRACE and other special events. Lisa S., an Epilepsy Association Board Member and eRACE Committee Member, was an eRACER who fund-raised on behalf of EA. Lisa was the top fundraiser who raised over $3,100! Hayden, Lisa’s son, is three years old and is living with epilepsy. Here is their inspiring story:

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Hayden was diagnosed with a severe form epilepsy known as Dravet Syndrome at 9 months of age. He suffered from his first seizure at just 4 months old lasting 20 minutes, he spent a week-long stay at the hospital where they ran test after test trying to determine what had happened. By the time he was 9 months old he was having over 50 Myoclonic Seizures a day as well as Grand Mal Seizures every other week that could range anywhere from 20 minutes to 3 hours. Hayden spent much of the first year of his life in and out of the pediatric intensive care unit of the hospital. Just after Hayden’s first birthday he suffered from a 2-hour long seizure that caused his respiratory system to crash. He was intubated and taken by life flight to the hospital. Two months later it happened again this time the seizure lasted 3 hours and we nearly lost him. Hayden’s seizures were becoming so severe that rescue medications and daily anti-epileptic drugs were not working for him. In October of 2015 he was started on the Ketogenic Diet, he remained on the diet for a year and a half only suffering from 2 seizures. The diet saved his life.

Due to the severity of Hayden’s seizures it caused him to be non-verbal as well as struggle with his balance and movement abilities. As Hayden grew older so did his tolerance level for the diet, and the seizures returned. Now at 3 years old, Hayden is off the ketogenic diet and back on multiple AED’s. His seizures are currently controlled, only suffering from break throughs with growth spurts and illnesses.

Hayden has been going to physical therapy and has made tremendous strides in his movement abilities. He has also been working with a speech therapist and able to say between 30 and 40 words, with a positive outlook to gain more. The support that the hospital, his doctors, and Epilepsy Association has provided not only to Hayden but our entire family has been life changing during this journey. I encourage you to join and walk with us as we honor Hayden and the rest of the individuals and their families suffering from epilepsy. Let’s work together to eRace the historic stigma of epilepsy.

Scanlon team

EA’s 2017 Client of the Year!


At the Epilepsy Association, we see clients overcome obstacles in their lives on a daily basis. Each year at the Epilepsy Association’s Annual Meeting, one client is chosen and recognized for their significant achievements in overcoming their struggles related to their epilepsy and mental health issues. It is hard to choose just one recipient to celebrate, as we have seen such great improvements with all of our clients. This year’s recipient of the Client of the Year Award is Dean Bratsch.

Dean started having seizures at 12 years old, and was diagnosed with epilepsy during his teen years. He was having grand mal seizures into his early 20’s. At this point, he learned about the Epilepsy Association, and became a client in February of 2013. He was looking for help with his seizure control and independence, and also his feelings of anxiety and isolation.

When Dean started seeing a case worker here at the Association, he began to learn important coping skills with his anger and anxiety. He also started seeing a new neurologist who told him he might be a candidate for epilepsy surgery. During his time with the Association, Dean has moved into his own apartment and has become more independent. His communication with his doctors is much better, and he is better at managing his own life.

On June 22, 2017 Dean graciously accepted his 2017 Client of the Year Award, and thanked his mom, the rest of his family, friends, and the case workers who have helped him during his time here at the Association.

Dean is continuing to work towards his goals and dreams with the love and support of his family, friends, and staff at the Epilepsy Association.

Congratulations to Dean on all of his accomplishments!

Help Raise Awareness for Epilepsy on Purple Day®, March 26

 

Editors’ note: In recognition of Purple Day® on March 26, Clare Karlovec shares how epilepsy has affected her younger sister and their entire family, and why Purple Day® is so important to raise awareness about epilepsy and support those with seizure disorders.

          The first seizure I remember my little sister Julia having was in our family’s parked car in the garage; Julia was two years old, and my twin sister Allison and I were seven. My mom had just wrangled all three of us into the minivan, with Julia in her car seat, and we were about to set off for our piano lesson when we noticed Julia making noises and her body shaking. At first, we thought Julia was being funny to try to get our attention, but then we noticed the worry our mom had as she quickly jumped out of the driver’s seat and rushed to Julia’s side. Since then, that worry that our mother expressed was transferred unto us; the brief moment that we had thought she was being funny had completely vanished, and we worried about every seizure and the possibility of more ever since.

          Epilepsy became a part of our lives. Our parents tried to educate me and Allison as much as possible about what epilepsy was, and what to anticipate when Julia was going to have a seizure. Julia’s seizures became less terrifying to us as we started to know what to expect and how to handle it. We had brochures pinned to our kitchen refrigerator underneath smiley-faced magnets about the different types of seizures and how to respond and help her.

          We watched as Julia tried many different medications, taking many pills at a time, to find the right combination and dosage to manage her epilepsy. Her medicine would work for a couple of months and lessen the number of seizures she had, but oftentimes its affectivity would decline and the number of seizures would climb up again before she had to try a higher dosage or new medications. Allison and I would make a fuss about having to swallow a Tylenol, so seeing Julia take six pills at a time really put things in perspective for us. Suddenly a tiny Tylenol didn’t seem so bad.

          We listened to her talk about how she felt like she was different and not accepted because of her epilepsy. We knew that Julia was having a difficult time accepting her epilepsy because she felt so isolated. Even though Julia may have felt alone at times, we made a constant effort to prove her otherwise by sticking by her side, believing in her, and supporting her in anything that she wanted to do. We were constantly worried about her safety, and always wanted to be as protective as possible, maybe sometimes “too overprotective” as she likes to say.

          What our family’s journey with epilepsy has taught us is that spreading epilepsy awareness is so important. It’s surprising how limited people’s knowledge about epilepsy and seizures is. I’ll never forget about the time Julia had a seizure at a restaurant during dinner, and a woman at a nearby table exclaimed, “Put a spoon in her mouth!” These kinds of comments demonstrate how most people don’t know what actions to take when someone is having a seizure. Once you know what to expect and how to react to someone seizing, you can handle the situation more easily, and in turn create a calmer environment for the person seizing to regain consciousness in.

          Julia has amazing strength and courage that she sometimes doesn’t even realize she has. I admire her for facing many physical and mental challenges along the way with such determination and the willingness to keep trying. Her epilepsy may make her different, but she certainly does not let it limit her, or stop her from enjoying life. I continue to be inspired by her.

12th Annual Winter Walk Featured Families

The Holman/DeJong Family                       The Yoder Family

Each year at the Winter Walk, we honor two families with the title of “Featured Family” for their outstanding efforts in coping with epilepsy on a daily basis. This year, we have two very deserving families being honored: The Holman/DeJong Family and the Yoder Family. Congratulations to these two wonderful families!

The Holman/DeJong Family was nominated by an individual who is very involved with the Epilepsy Association, Lacey Wood. Melissa Holman, mother of Mysha DeJong who has had epilepsy since she was 18 months old, openly shared her family’s story with us. They were told that Mysha would “never walk, never talk and would be severely mentally disabled due to a massive damage in her left hemisphere.” But the family never gave up hope! After struggling for years with seizures, Mysha had surgery on August 11, 2011. She started at a new high school that October, and was attending school full time by November. Since her surgery, Mysha has been seizure and medication free. One of the family’s proudest moments was seeing Mysha graduate from high school last year despite all the obstacles she has had to overcome in her life. Her story is so inspirational that she was featured on MTV and Fox 8 news. Click on the links below to read these stories:

MTV

http://www.mtv.com/news/2166381/teen-graduates-brain-surgery/

Fox 8 News

http://fox8.com/2015/05/18/rocky-river-student-beats-all-odds-to-graduate/

The Yoder Family, nominated by mother Jennifer Yoder, has also had to endure a lot of complications as a result of daughter Ethel, nicknamed “Eppie,” having her first seizure when she was only two weeks old. Jennifer was told that Ethel would not make it to her 8th birthday due to a rare form of a mitochondria disorder. But through the fear of this reality, the family viewed each milestone with a special meaning. They enjoy every moment with Ethel and focus on finding a cure. Through all of the hospital and doctor visits, Jennifer says that “our family faced many bad days, but also had several good days. These are the ones that I want to remember. Her smile became my sunshine on those dark and stormy days.” Ethel’s 8th birthday has come and gone, and Ethel is still powering through every obstacle that is thrown at her.

Thank you to both of our Featured Families for sharing their stories with us. We hope that you can join us on Saturday, January 28th, from 8 a.m. to 10 a.m. at SouthPark Mall in Strongsville to support not only the Holman/DeJong and Yoder families, but also all of the other families coping with epilepsy in the Northeast Ohio community.

And the Winner is…

And the Winner is…

Each year the Epilepsy Association recognizes a client that has made significant progress in their goals related to their epilepsy and mental health.   Selecting the client of the year is a difficult process as we are so proud of all of the individuals that we serve.  This year Julia Clouden- Jones was selected as the Epilepsy Association’s Client of the Year.  

Think back and reflect on your own life.  What have you accomplished in the last 19 months? Did you lose that 15 pounds? Get a new job? Clean out that closet that has been collecting all of the odds and ends in your home?   

In the last 19 months there have been 2 holiday seasons, 2 spring break weeks, 1 tax season, and of course who could forget , 1 NBA Championship win! 

The last 19 months for Julia have been quite the adventure. When Julia came to the Epilepsy Association she was homeless, in an unhealthy relationship, had uncontrolled seizures that were epileptic as well as non-epileptic, did not have health insurance, and was desperate for help.  She wanted to stand on her own two feet, and needed some help.  Julia was eager to begin services and once she did she moved along so quickly.  Throughout her time as a client in the Adult Case Management Program Julia was able to completely turn her life around.  

In the last 19 months Julia was able to:

  • End her relationship and move forward
  • obtain and maintain health insurance
  • obtain and maintain disability benefits
  • engage in counseling
  • obtain and maintain her own apartment
  • engage with a neurologist who informed her that she was candidate for epilepsy surgery
  • had a successful epilepsy surgery which significantly reduced the frequency and severity of her seizures 
  • Due to her counseling and other positive  changes in her life her non-epileptic events  are no longer occurring
  • increase her self esteem
  • improve relationships with family members

Julia is a true inspiration! On June 16th, 2016 Julia was awarded the 2016 Client of the Year Award.  She humbly accepted her award and spoke at the Annual Meeting about the impact that the Epilepsy Association has had on her life.   Tears filled the eyes of the audience members as they witnessed this amazing example of strength and perseverance.  

Julia continues to surpass all of her goals and sets new ones for herself. We look forward to seeing where her journey takes her as we know it will be a beautiful ride.

Congratulations Julia!

“A person’s a person, no matter how small.” -Dr. Seuss

Children CAN make a difference! Take Ryan Wood for example.  At 4 years old he is preparing for kindergarten, looking forward to summer T-Ball,  and enjoying being a big brother.  He is also making positive change for other children.  Ryan participated in the 2016 Winter Walk in which he rode his scooter the entire course at Strongsville Mall.  When asked why he did this he reported, “I want to help other kids. There are kids that have epilepsy that can’t be here for all the fun”.  Ryan spent several weeks campaigning by making phone calls to family and friends as well as posting a series of videos on Facebook to talk about epilepsy and how important it is to help others.  His videos were shared on many different Facebook pages and he received donations from several different states!  Every day after preschool he would ask to view his website to see who donated.  He then would call and thank them.   Ryan’s success was so much more than he and his family could have imagined!  He raised $825 for the Epilepsy Association which made him to top fundraiser for his age group.  Ryan attended  the

Purple Day Power Lunch at the Epilepsy Association in which he received an award for his efforts.  He was permitted time at preschool to share his award with the classes and talk about epilepsy and helping others.  Ryan’s preschool, St. Augustine Manor Child Enrichment Center, also hosts a Purple Day event in which the children learn about epilepsy through an in-service or puppet show, wear purple, and create purple projects.  The children created a poster this year that currently hangs for all visitors to the Epilepsy Association to see.

Ryan may only be 4 years old, but his efforts raised funds to provide support services to children with epilepsy and their families at no cost to them.

If you would like to learn more about the services that Ryan raised funds for, or helping your child’s school set up an in-service to provide epilepsy education, please call the Epilepsy Association at 216-579-1330.

March 26th is Purple Day, Epilepsy Awareness Day

Purple Day is Epilepsy Awareness Day

By: Beth Nuss

When my daughter Taylor was diagnosed with epilepsy I felt like it came out of nowhere. The seizures started subtly and went unnoticed for several months; still we knew something was wrong. Taylor was forgetting her homework, going to bed in her day clothes, and wearing the same outfit two days in a row. None of that would be considered normal behavior for a thirteen-year-old girl. When I spoke to the pediatrician about these occurrences, even she didn’t immediately suspect epilepsy. Even after a battery of tests, including an EEg, her condition couldn’t be labeled as epilepsy because there wasn’t any hard evidence.

 Finally one day we observed a seizure for the first time. I can only describe it as a short period of time where she was unaware of her surroundings followed by lip smacking and picking at her clothes. These seizures became more frequent and more pronounced as time went by. Eventually the evidence made it clear that Taylor had epilepsy. She was treated for the next eight years with many different anti-epileptic drugs, each of them failing after a few months of use, while the seizures became worse and very noticeable. I was fearful that she would get hurt.

 School work became an exhausting chore. Her memory grew increasingly worse as the seizures continued and the mind numbing drugs made her inattentive and tired. The school listened to my concerns and tried to understand but they were not equipped to deal with a child with epilepsy. They had never dealt with it before and were completely unaware when Taylor was seizing in school but I knew it was happening. After seven years of seizing at home sometimes ten to twenty times a week, it’s impossible to think that it never occurred between the hours of 8am and 2pm Monday thru Friday. I would like all teachers to be trained to notice when children in the classroom are behaving strangely, attempt to identify what is happening and report the actions to the child’s parents.

 I feel like there is a general unawareness of what epilepsy is and how it affects patients and their families in our society. Countless times I tried to explain to people who ask, “how’s Taylor doing?”, that the meds aren’t working, she’s still seizing, she has trouble learning, she can’t remember, she’s tired all the time, she doesn’t laugh and smile like she used to, she can’t drive, she can’t swim, etc. etc. etc. It is hard to understand when you don’t live with it daily and have never witnessed a seizure. And that’s one of the reasons I would like to bring more awareness to epilepsy.

 Fortunately Taylor was finally able to have epilepsy surgery and has been seizure free ever since. Her two-year anniversary is coming up on March 26, 2015, on Purple Day. She still takes some medications as a precaution but her activity level, confidence and overall disposition is markedly better. Our family will celebrate Purple Day together at The Harp with the Cleveland Epilepsy Association and we will continue to support the many families in our community struggling to come to terms with the diagnosis of epilepsy and the enormous challenges it brings.